Frequently Asked Questions

Getting Started

What is Should We Live Together?

It's a questionnaire-based tool that helps couples explore their compatibility before moving in together. You and your partner each answer the same questions separately, then compare your results.

How do I sign up?

Just enter your phone number on the login page. We'll send you a verification code via SMS. No password needed.

Is it free?

The basic questionnaire and summary results are free. We may offer additional in-depth analysis features in the future.

The Questionnaire

How long does it take?

Most people complete the questionnaire in 5-10 minutes. You can take your time—your progress is saved automatically.

Can I change my answers?

Yes, you can update your answers anytime before your partner completes their questionnaire.

What topics does it cover?

The questionnaire covers practical aspects of living together: cleanliness, finances, schedules, guests, personal space, and more.

Inviting Your Partner

How do I invite my partner?

After completing your questionnaire, you'll be prompted to enter your partner's email address. They'll receive an invitation link to join.

Can my partner see my answers before they finish?

No. Neither of you can see each other's answers until you've both completed the questionnaire.

What if my partner doesn't receive the invitation?

Check their spam folder first. If it's not there, contact us and we'll help sort it out.

Results

How are results calculated?

We compare your answers to your partner's across different categories and highlight areas of alignment and potential discussion points.

What do the results mean?

The results are meant to spark conversation, not make decisions for you. High compatibility doesn't guarantee success, and differences don't mean failure—what matters is how you communicate about them.

Can I retake the questionnaire?

Currently, each person completes the questionnaire once per partnership. Contact us if you have special circumstances.

Privacy & Data

Who can see my answers?

Only you and your matched partner (in the form of comparison results). We don't share individual answers with anyone else.